Ever heard the saying, “How you do one thing is how you do everything”? Well, there’s this one thing you can start doing today that could transform not just your life, but also your dating game. Here’s the kicker: it’s all about kindness.
In the dating world, everyone’s hunting for love and dreaming of those perfect, romantic moments. But here’s a funny thing – most of us reckon we’re nice folks. We think we’re funny, ace drivers, and look younger than we are. But let’s face it, we’ve all seen enough grumpy, bad drivers who look exactly their age!
So, what’s the deal?
It’s time for a little reality check. We might think we’re spreading kindness in our dating lives, but if you’re still flying solo, maybe it’s time to crank up the kindness dial. What’s there to lose? Plus, practicing kindness has a cool side effect: you’ll feel better about yourself and ooze a bit more confidence, which, by the way, is a top attractor for both men and women. So, why not give it a go? Be kind for others, and for yourself!
Wondering how a little kindness can revamp your dating scene? Here’s the lowdown:
- Respond Promptly and Politely: Got an email, text, or call? Always answer, even if it’s just to say “No, thanks”. A gentle letdown, wishing the other person well, can make a world of difference.
- Be Present: Whether you’re on a date or just chatting on the phone, give your full attention. Being present means more than just being physically there; it’s about engaging fully. So, maybe stash your phone away and focus on the moment.
- Show Genuine Appreciation: Remember, anyone you’re interacting with is giving you their time and energy. Acknowledge that. A heartfelt “thank you” goes a long way, whether it’s after a simple text, a first date, or several meet-ups.
- Generosity is Key: In dating, it’s not about how much you spend but how you spend your time and effort. Think outside the usual dinner date. And when it comes to picking up the tab, let go of any expectations about who should pay. Just give freely.
- Calm Down on the Road: Your driving behavior can be a reflection of your personality. That person who snagged your parking spot or cut you off? They probably think they’re nice too. Don’t be that guy. Practice patience and understanding on the road.
Remember, every interaction, every message, every person you meet during your day is a chance to be kind and compassionate. This isn’t about getting something in return. It’s about being a better person, day by day.
No matter where you are in terms of kindness, crank it up. You’ll be amazed at how it transforms not just your dating life but your entire human experience.
