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Dating can sometimes lead us into the complex world of narcissistic personalities. Tina Wilson, the founder of Wingman, sheds light on this by outlining eight red flags that might indicate you’re dating a narcissist. Let’s explore these signs in more detail:

Excessive Attentiveness

Initially, a narcissist can come off as incredibly charming and attentive. They may cater to your every need, respond to messages instantly, and seem to be the perfect partner. However, Tina warns that this behavior is often short-lived and self-serving. It’s important to differentiate between genuine care and manipulative attention-seeking. If the relationship feels too good to be true, it’s worth taking a closer look at their intentions and actions.

Constant Self-Praise

Narcissists often have an inflated sense of self-importance. They frequently boast about being highly regarded by others, using phrases like “People say I’m great” or “My boss thinks I’m the best.” Tina suggests a tactic to gauge their reaction to your successes. If they continually redirect the conversation back to themselves, it’s a clear sign of narcissistic behavior.

Inability to Accept Fault

A hallmark of narcissistic personality is the inability to admit they’re wrong. If you find yourself frequently doubting your own perspective or version of events in the relationship, it could be a red flag. Tina advises reflecting on how this affects your self-esteem and whether it leads to feelings of being belittled or insecure.

Gaslighting Tactics

Narcissists excel at making their partners question their own sanity. This manipulative tactic, known as gaslighting, involves denying or twisting facts to make you doubt your experiences and perceptions. If your partner frequently dismisses your feelings or memories of events, it’s a serious concern. Tina emphasizes the importance of maintaining open communication lines with friends and family for support.

Fantasy and Exaggeration

Some narcissists create an illusion of a grandiose lifestyle. They might weave stories about their incredible job, connections, or experiences. If you find that their stories don’t add up or are met with aggressive responses when questioned, it could signal a deep-seated issue with honesty and reality.

Projecting Their Behavior on You

Narcissists often accuse their partners of behaviors they themselves exhibit. If you’re frequently blamed for being cold or unloving, while in reality, it’s your partner who’s behaving this way, it’s a classic sign of projection. Trust your instincts and be aware of this manipulative tactic.

Overinflated Ego

An oversized ego is a common trait among narcissists. They often believe they’re special and above others, leading to a pattern of short-lived relationships. If your

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